After Jane's mom had died and we had attended the funeral, I had a chance to talk with Jane weeks later. She told me that one of her last memories of her mom was when she was full of joy,singing and dancing down a hallway (in a school? in a church?). Then she commented that she thought that every woman should see a counselor when she lost her mom. I didn't understand until I lost my own mom. Jane was a very wise woman. That was one of the very few times we didn't end our conversation laughing 😂 until we cried!